1 Feb Women love it when a guy is able to maintain sexual control and heighten her sexual experience to depths unknown to her before. In order to perform this task, however, you have to have a great amount of self-control. If your mindset is to drive her mad with passion, then that's what you will end up doing. 22 Feb It's the art of teasing women in bed and it drives them WILD! The aim is to get her to the point where, she's jumping on top of you BEGGING you to bang her brains out. QUICK TIP: If you want to bypass the basics and learn the advanced techniques that will make women stalk you because you are SOOOOO. 8 Dec “It's much better to rub the clitoral hood [where the tops of the labia meet] or to rub along the side of the clitoris than it is to go straight for the head of it.” When playing with the clitoris during oral sex, Birch's advice is to “focus on the clitoris, then don't focus on the clitoris. The clitoris reacts best to being teased.